Lake County Gazette

The transition to college is a significant event for both students and their parents. Many families experience a mix of emotions, including pride, excitement, and worry as their child begins this new chapter. Parents often seek ways to support their students from a distance, focusing on academic resources, understanding campus offerings, mental health support, and encouraging independence.

The first year of college typically brings emotional ups and downs for students. They may face homesickness, academic stress, or challenges in making new friends. These experiences are common and part of the adjustment process. Parents are encouraged to be supportive while also fostering their child's independence—a balance that can be influenced by factors such as physical distance from home, financial considerations, and how much the student chooses to share about their experiences.

Gabby Rowe is the parent of a Lake Forest College senior who plays on the Forester football team. She spoke about her family's experience with the transition: "My son Griffin was recruited to play football for the Forester football team. His father is also an alum of Lake Forest College. For years, Griffin heard his dad talk about his amazing college experience. So when a number of colleges offered him scholarships to play football, it came down to where Griffin felt he would fit the best—not only as an athlete, but as a student," Rowe said. "Lake Forest College lived up to all the memories his father shared, but Griffin felt the College would allow him to be both, a student and an athlete."

Rowe noted that in the excitement of choosing a college, discussions about apprehension surrounding this major life change can sometimes be overlooked.

"Going to college and being away from home the first time is as big of a deal for parents as it is for students," she added. "It's a big time of transition. It was helpful to know there are so many resources and a network of good people for him to lean on at the school he ultimately chose."